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A 39-Year-Old Filipina Waitress Shares Why She Keeps Working for Her Children

Writer: Filipina Oprah
Filipina Oprah
Jul 28
2 min read


Filipina waitress outside a Korean bar in Walking Street.

Not everyone working in Angeles City's nightlife is involved in the same type of work.

Some are waitresses, cashiers, cleaners, cooks, or support staff who rely on the nightlife industry simply because it provides employment close to home.

During our interview, 39-year-old Myra spoke about raising two children alone, working as a waitress in a Korean bar, and dreaming of a more stable future for her family.

"It's difficult being a single mother because I'm the only one supporting my children."

Her story highlights the challenges many parents face while trying to balance work and family.

Raising Two Children Alone

Myra is the mother of two children, ages 11 and 1.

She explained that she receives little support from the fathers of her children, leaving her to shoulder the responsibility of providing for them on her own.

Like many single parents, every workday is centered around making sure her children have food, clothing, and the opportunity to attend school.

From Restaurant Work to Walking Street

Before moving to Angeles City, Myra worked in a restaurant in Manila.

After relocating to Pampanga to be closer to relatives, a friend introduced her to opportunities in Walking Street, where she found work as a waitress in a Korean bar.

She emphasized that her role is serving drinks and assisting customers, not providing sexual services.

Although the work offers tips in addition to her salary, the income can still be unpredictable.

A Relationship That Didn't Last

During the interview, Myra reflected on a previous relationship with a Korean man.

Filipina single mother spending time with her children at home

The couple even opened a small salon business together, but the business eventually closed during the COVID-19 pandemic.

Their relationship later ended after she learned he had become involved with someone else.

While the experience was painful, she said it helped her realize the importance of finding someone who is honest and willing to accept both her and her children.

Life as a Single Mother

Working night shifts while raising young children is never easy.

Myra explained that when one of her children becomes sick, she sometimes has to miss work to stay home and provide care.

She also admitted that working in a bar is not her long-term goal and hopes to return to restaurant work or eventually find another stable job.

Looking Toward the Future

When asked about her dreams, Myra's answer focused on her children.

She wants them to finish school, build successful lives, and avoid many of the struggles she has experienced.

Personally, she hopes to meet someone—Filipino or foreign—who will genuinely accept her and her children as part of one family.

A Story of Strength

Myra's interview reminds us that every person working in Walking Street has a unique story.

Behind the lights and busy nightlife are parents, caregivers, and workers striving to support their families through honest work.

Her greatest motivation remains simple: creating a better future for her children.

FAQ

How old is Myra?

Myra is 39 years old.

What does she do in Walking Street?

She works as a waitress in a Korean bar, serving drinks and assisting customers.

What is her biggest dream?

She hopes her children complete their education and that she eventually finds a loving partner who accepts both her and her family.


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